Tucked away above a cell phone shop in the heart of K-town, the exterior of Pocha 32 blends so readily into its surrounding that you could easily walk by it a dozen times without noticing it was there. Inside, the décor is sparse to the point it could almost be described as industrial, luckily the warmth of a cheery crowd overwhelms the ambience. This isn’t the kind of place for a quiet tête-à-tête. It’s a place where big groups of friends come to celebrate and get very, very, very drunk.

Pocha is short for pojang macha, Korean street carts which serve small and tasty dishes in endless varieties. As the English have come to understand of curry, Germans of wurst, and Americans of White Castle, Koreans appreciate the fact that the enjoyment derived from the consumption of pojang macha increases at a rate more or less equal to the square of the number of units of alcohol consumed. The proof of this dangles over your head as you dine at Pocha 32 beneath a veritable sea of sochu caps fastened to nets hanging from the ceiling.

Sochu, has no fixed recipe, it’s distilled from sources as diverse as sweet potato, rice, barley and wheat. Its name roughly translates to: made of something burning, which is as ample and unambiguous a warning as you could hope for. To take the edge off that fire, it’s mixed with everything from lemonade to yoghurt. At Pocha 32 these concoctions are served in unassuming stainless steel kettles, or in the case of watermelon sochu in the halved fruit and then portioned into cups with a ladle.

A night out at Pocha should follow a simple pattern. Drink. Eat. Drink more. Repeat until you can’t bear the thought of eating another thing. Start simple – perhaps the Dak Gok Ji (chicken skewers) or the Kimchi pancake. Match with a giant bowl of watermelon sochu. Then move onto something a little more challenging and a lot tastier, perhaps the samgyupsal ojinga (Korean style bacon and octopus). If all goes well by the time you're finished you’ll end up as one patron did at the table next to us – smiling blissfully, eyes closed, forehead resting on the table, out cold.

In 1923 John W. Campbell – financier, captain of industry, Renaissance man, acquired a lease on one very exclusive piece of New York City real state, a 3,500 square foot room nestled into the west wing of Grand Central Station. He took the raw space and renovated it in a manner befitting the grandeur of its location. He lined the floor with Persian carpets, had artisans craft elaborate inlays into the woodwork, and artists hand paint the ceilings. And at the end of the room he placed a desk with such grand proportions and stately presence that the whims of the man behind it would engender the gravitas of royal edict.

In 1999 the Campbell apartment was renovated as a bar and by virtue of its history and opulence achieved immediate classic status. It’s the kind of bar where ordering a drink mixed with anything sweeter than soda water is viewed with suspicion, and where the dress code (collared shirts and dress shoes) is rigidly enforced even when the bar is all but empty. This is rarely the case on weekdays when between 5pm and 9pm it’s deluged with commuters from the many nearby investment banks grabbing a few stiff drinks before heading home. But come here on a weekend, and you can frequently find yourself alone with the bartender. Take a seat at the bar in front of the enormous windows overlooking Vanderbilt Avenue. Place an order befitting the space, something richly textured, classic and more than a bit indulgent, perhaps a measure of Oban or Laphroaig. Now hold the heavy glass in your hand and let the immediate luxury of your current circumstance dissolve the tensions of the day precisely as John W. Campbell did almost a century ago.

Using a typical Village karaoke den as a frame of reference for Spotlight Live is a bit like imagining Niagara Falls from a running tap. True enough, aside from differences in scale and locale they are both essentially just falling water, but somehow the comparison doesn’t quite do justice.

The underlying premise of Spotlight Live is to take the karaoke phenomenon of stardom in miniature, and turn that experience up to eleven. Instead of performing for a group of a few dozen in a cramped basement, the view from Spotlight’s stage looks out at four stories, twenty-three thousand square feet, and as many as eight hundred potential fans in the making. And if that’s not enough of a thrill for you, your performance will also be broadcast onto a twenty five by forty foot Times Square Jumbotron, and picked up on a live web feed. If all that sounds a little intimidating, fear not. You won’t have to face all that pressure by yourself. You’ll have a team of professional back up singers, stylists, and a top notch sound system all working together to make sure that when you hit the second chorus of Eye of the Tiger the whole crowd will be on their feet and clapping in time, or failing that your backup singers have been trained to throw themselves in front of any tomatoes hurled your way.

Even nestled amongst the cluttered commercial real estate lining Queens Boulevard it’s hard to miss Play. Big, canary yellow and blazing its name into the night in ten foot silver letters it’s clearly out to be noticed. Of course this is Elmhurst and while hanging a tiny sign on a gate that says Toy Factory might draw a crowd in the Lower East Side, here you need to make a statement to get noticed, and Play definitely makes a statement.

Not content to be just a lounge, a bar, a club, a pool hall, or a bowling alley Play is each of these. Weighing in at over ten thousand square feet, there’s more than enough space for it all, including seventeen pool tables, four bowling lanes, a smoker’s lounge, a bar, and a dance floor. Each of these spaces represents a distinct social microcosm. There are dates out shooting pool, singles pressed against each other at the bar, and groups of friends bowling. But throughout the vibe is so low key and resolutely friendly that it can be disarming for a ranging Manhattanite. People come here to have fun, they come here to play, and that alone is reason enough to make the trip.